Catholic mannerisms

When I hear someone say, "God bless" and the expression in their eyes doesn't seem to be sincere, I feel awkward and uncomfortable what to say in reply. For some it has become a habit to say those words or end letters with it. Do they really mean it? Why not say, "May God bless you" instead?

If we are really into giving someone a blessing why not say it the right way, meaning full sentence structure? Okay, I'm not an English expert just making a mountain out of a molehill out of a copycat's "idea" of a "blessed" parting remark to friends and associates.

The words, "God Bless" and making the sign of the cross when passing a church are just a few mannerisms or habit that we acquire from our interaction with other Catholics. Is it really necessary and do we understand why we are doing it?

Message for today, June 8, 2011.

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Blessing others with God's peace blesses you too, but you shouldn't do it casually as you often hear as, "God bless" in imitation of those who sincerely wish you My blessings. There are those who say it as lip service, not really heartily wishing you well.

When you say, "God bless" to someone or anyone, mean it with all of your heart and the blessings will return to you a hundredfold. So bless people that way, so you will feel blessed many times.

There are people who do the sign of benediction every time they pass by a church or stand in front of my altar, but do they really understand what they are doing? Chances are they are just copying what others are doing and finding it a pious act making the person holy or righteous in their mind, they want to be looked on the same way.

One should not copy the act of another without understanding its meaning. The sign of the cross is an expression of your belief in the Holy Trinity. By crossing yourself when you pass by a church, you acknowledge My presence there. You should cross yourself if you have the inclination to do so, solemnly not hurriedly.

You don't have to do that, I did not order it to be done but someone started it and someone liked it and others liked it too, so the sign of the veneration when passing by a church became the fashion so to speak of pious Catholics. A simple bowing of the head with a whispered prayer will do, nothing showy, nothing distinct to set you apart from the rest.

I don't want My children to act like the Pharisees of old. I prefer My children to be quiet, simple and humble but full of loving kindness and compassion for their neighbors and brothers. That is the way, I prefer My children to copy and follow, not the outward signs of piety.