For widows & widowers

Message for July 31, 2011.
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The merry widow is free of her obligations from her dead husband and can marry someone else if she wishes to, but, I advise her to prepare her remaining days on earth as My maidservant. She should not look for a husband for security and companionship reasons, they are just flimsy reasons to cover up the real truth in seeking for another partner. The fear of being alone in the senior years of their lives drives widows and widowers to seek someone to be with especially if they are used to the pampering of their late spouses.

But there are also those who no longer seek somebody to replace the memory of their dearly departed. Each to his own in facing the suddenness of being alone.

Although, I really would prefer that they spend their time with Me and serving in My church, I will not prohibit them in searching for someone who they feel would fill up the void left by their partners. It is not always easy to find the man or woman to replace your previous partner and it is equally not easy to fill up the shoes of those you loved, so the relationship might not turn out as you expected.

Spare yourself from anxiety and heartbreak and just be with Me and work with Me in My church to bring brothers and sisters back to My kingdom. You will find great joy in doing so. Think things over seriously accompanied with prayer to discern what is good for you.